Tony had to hedge a little, hands up innocently for the possibility that he was wrong, with a shrug because, well, maaaybe...He couldn't be sure. It did seem unlikely. It had seemed unlikely that Steve would show any interest in men, too, before Tony got here. Now, it felt so obvious. "You know, he gets tunnel vision, he's sure this one thing is right, so there aren't other options," Tony suggested. "He figured out his right...thing a long time ago. He needs help to adapt a little." That was making his chest hurt, or maybe that was his fingers digging in to his heart where he hadn't realized he had been pressing, so Tony was happy to continue quickly, "Did you ever like that, a virginity thing? It's exhausting. At least you know he doesn't have any bad habits, but I'm not sure it's worth it. Someone with experience, you know, who knows how much pressure a windpipe can take..." Alright, maybe that was too many words, enough.