Dude you should really just accept that Tommy is hot when he's fighting. There's nothing gay about recognizing that someone is attractive. It's the wanting to do something with that which makes it 'gay' or whatever.

"Yeah, I could see why this would be a trauma trigger. But I promise that if anyone can take the brunt of your fury and come out through the other side with no issues or even hard feelings, it's Steve Rogers."

The guy hadn't even hated TOmmy for things he should. Or the one back home. Trusted him immediately? No. Hated him? Nah. The guy was definitely sensible.

"You don't have to force yourself into exposure therapy. And if you do, someone should have your back. Just in case."